Paradigm Shift

Friday, September 10, 2010

Is Selfish mindset an evil or a virtue.

Ayn Rand wrote a book called"The virtue of Selfishness".Therefore I would like the readers of my blog to express their opinion whether'selfishness is a virtue or an evil'.

Was Mukesh Ambani selfish when he tried to deny the legitimate claim of his younger brother,Mr Anil Ambani,to have an equal say in Dhirubhai Ambani's Corporate empire.Mr Kamat had to intervene to resolve the Corporate dispute between the two brothers.And in recent times,Mr Harish Salve did the required leg work to resolve the remanant dispute between the two brothers.

How sad and pathetic it is!

Was Mukesh Ambani selfish,when he tried to prevent Mr Anil Ambani from buying out the African telecom company at the behest of Mr Sunil Mittal.I leave it to the wisdom of the readers of my blog to decide on this fact.

According to me,Mr Mukesh Ambani option is not only selfish but also extremely mean person.

Is Pakistan option a selfish country.According to me,Like Mukesh,Pakistan is also a selfish & a mean country.
Pakistan has always tried to harm India.It is a known fact that Pakistan option is a hub for terrorism.Pakistan option has indulged in acts of terrorism since India and Pakistan got divided into two nations.
The most recent terrorist attack was the 26/11 in which patriotic people like Hemant Karkare lost their life.Right now Pakistan has given shelter to the "most wanted underworld don called Dawood Ibrahim Kaskar'.

Pakistan option has always tried to harm India.Moreover,be it match fixing in cricket or be it acts of terrorism option,Pakistan has repeatedly proclaimed its innocence despite sufficient & credible proof and evidences.
The obvious example is denial by Pakistan that the terrorist called Kasab caught by Maharashtra police after 26/11 bomb blast in Mumbai option in which the patriotic Hemant Karkare lost his life is not a citizen of Pakistan option.

On the other hand,India has always retained,maintained and has shown frequently 'a soft corner and a liberal attitude towards Pakistan option'.

India has always tried to help Pakistan option,whenever Pakistan option has been in need or in difficult situation.The most recent one being India's spontaneous help to give financial aid to flood ravaged Pakistan.

I hope like the selfish Mukesh Ambani option,the Pakistan option makes a spontaneous gesture to stop creating terror problems in Jammu & Kashmir because Jammu & Kashmir is an integral part of Mother India.
Mr Barrack Obama should understand the fact that the basic problem with Pakistan option is that Pakistan option cannot be trusted because Pakistan option has extremely low integrity.

This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
PAN:ASZPS3289C.
Cell:9871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:10.09.2010
Time:12(midnight).

Thursday, September 9, 2010

The Twist & Turns of my tryst with destiny.

As I look back at the years gone by,a sense of anger envelops me for the wrong done to me in 1997.At that point of time I was working in Mumbai option for "Larsen & Toubro as Deputy Manager(Human Resource).

Not only somebody(I have identified these rascals) tried to ruin my professional career but also three attempts were made on my life.And one such attempt was made on my life right in front of the house(Pratiksha)of 'Amitabh Bachchan option in Juhu while I was waiting for my car'.

At that point of time 'Malvika (Tewari)Sanghvi was the Resident Editor of Bombay Times'.And Cyrus Merchant & Smita Deshmukh worked as correspondents for Bombay Times.

I told Cyrus Merchant about the attempt made on my life.And Cyrus Merchant advised me to move out of Mumbai option because Cyrus felt that 'there were certain powerful people who wanted not only to malign my reputation but also to kill me".

At that point of time,I told Cyrus that one day I will take legal revenge from these rascals.I have identified these rascals.And I promise that I will settle scores with them very soon.Some of these bastards have been punished by God(Eshwar)for their wrong deeds.

I exactly remember the pain,agony and torture which I have gone through since 1997 and the pain,agony and torture which my father and mother have gone through since 1997.

In fact,there was a sinister design by these bastards to murder my father and me.I have evidences with me to prove these facts.

These rascals also conspired to implicate me in certain wrong doings.Let me inform these rascals that'Anupam Sinha is very strong in legal terms.In fact,now I have enough evidences to implicate these rascals for their wrong doings.

These rascals tried very hard to prove that'I,Anupam Sinha,am dead'.And this conspiracy was hatched in Mumbai option.And in this my cousin,Mr Alok Sinha(Alok is the son of my mother's younger sister located in Chandigarh) was involved along with his father(Alok's father worked as forensic expert in Chandigarh).

Rajiv Pratap Rudy knows my cousin,Alok and his father.Rajiv Pratap Rudy also knows another cousin of mine, Mr Praveer Sinha.Praveer Sinha is presently working for 'Tata Power' in
New-Delhi.I am not in touch with Praveer for the last ten years.Through my father and mother,I came to know that 'Praveer sinha's mother expired on 5th of September,2010,in Kerela.Neither did Praveer inform me about this tragedy nor have I bothered to go to his house to express my condolence.
Praveer & Rudy were classmates at St Michael High School,Patna.And thereafter,both Praveer & Rajiv Pratap Rudy went to Chandigarh and studied at "DAV College".And at 'DAV college in Chandigarh, Mr Rajiv Pratap Rudy got involved in student politics and now Mr Rudy option is in BJP.

Over these extremely excruciating years since 1997,I have constantly evolved myself as a professional.As a result,I received recommendation letters from
"Indian Institute of Management(Lucknow) and XLRI(Jamshedpur)"for my work in the area of"Human Resource Audit for Recruitment,Performance Management System,and Training & Development in the year 2006".
Presently,I am working as "Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer in New-Delhi".And I stay in a rented accomodation in GK-I,New-Delhi.

I am also associated with 'a number of Management Institutes in New-Delhi & ncr as visiting faculty of Human Resource Management.Some of these Management Institutes have put my photograph on their prospectus.

Life would go on but I will never "forgive & forget"those rascals who made sinister attempts on my life.

In fact,I am in touch with 'Central Bureau of Investigation,government of India,to discuss certain critical issues.I interacted with "Mr Rajni Kant Mishra,Joint Director CBI,on 14th of february in 2007.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
PAN:ASZPS3289C.
Cell:9871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India.
Date:9.09.2010.
Time:12.45pm(night).

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

The Show must go on.

For me the life has been a 'strange Journey'.Since my toddler days, I have always tried to ask  questions from myself and from others "Why is it so. And why cannot it be so".
This scientific curiosity & inquisitiveness has only helped me to look at all 'socio - economic and geographical issues from a extremely pragmatic perspective'.

Our India has been growing in stature in the recent times because of the 'pragmatic approach to issues of domestic significance in a pluralistic society as well as issues of international importance.

In recent times,the Judiciary in India has become very active.And it is good for the 'Democratic health of mother India'.

The High Court ruling that "Vodaphone has to pay tax of two billion dollars for Hutch buy from Ruias is a significant judgement'.
Likewise,the 'Supreme Court judgement to distribute rotting foodgrains among the poor BPL families is another significant judgement'.

The flood ravaged China, Pakistan,and Japan are going through tough times.

Our neighbour Pakistan option continues to behave as "an irresponsible,mean,and selfish neighbour".The terrorism prone and the flood ravaged Pakistan has once again shown its'irresponsible, corrupt and greedy mindset by getting involved in "match fixing in Cricket".

Scotland Yard and Interpol should investigate thoroughly 'Neetu chandra,Dheeraj Dixit,and Veena Malik to find out the involvement of Pakistan option in match fixing in Cricket".

Scotland Yard & Interpol should also investigate "if there is even an iota of match fixing being done in IPL"

This is Anupam Sinha signing off.

Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
PAN:ASZPS3289C.
Cell:9871806386
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi.
Date:9.09.2020.
Time:9am

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Pakistan option is a terrible Neighbour.

The cancerous Pakistan option is at it again.Pakistan option is like an erratic & spoilt brat which has become a terrible burden for the 'global village in which people of all caste,creed,and colour co-exist in a congenial global socio-economic environment'.

Be it terrorist attack of 9/11 in USA, or terrorist attack of 26/11 in India or the present episode of match fixing in England which is being investigated by"the Scotland Yard and Interpol,"it only confirms the fact that the mindset of Pakistan and Pakistani nationals are dangerous for the 'global law abiding citizen.

The revelation of Miss Veena Malik,the ex - girlfriend of one of the Pakistani crickter option needs to be thoroughly investigated by the Scotland Yard & Interpol.

The Interpol and the Scotland Yard should also investigate the possible involvement of the bookie of our own Mr Dheeraj Dixit.And also verify the statements regarding match fixing made by the Pakistani national,Veena Malik.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.

Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
PAN:ASZPS3289C.
Cell:9871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:2.09.2010.
Time:4.30pm(Indian Standard Time).

Friday, August 27, 2010

Ruchika Girhotra molestation revives need for the Police Reform.

The Indian Police has been functioning under the"Police Act of 1861" in the post independence era.The last few years have witnessed concerted efforts to reform the Policing System in India through 'the enactment of a new Police Act' on the recommendations of Soli Sorabjee committee and through the intervention of the Supreme Court of India.

In recent times,Ruchika Girhotra molestation case has seen the dust being wiped off the Police Reform proposala including some suggesting to 'setting up tough Performance criteria for Police cops dealing with crimes related to Rape,Dowry deaths,Acid attacks,Molestation,Sexual Harassment and Intimidation.


The view that there is a need for some specific initiatives that would quicken the'Criminal - Judicial System' as a whole has gained some traction.

The Ruchika Girhotra molestation case has created an urgent need for Police Reforms because of the'shocking revalations that 'how the former DGP of Haryana,Mr SPS Rathore,manipulated the Policing System with obvious Political blessings to harass Ruchika and her family members after molesting the 14 year old Ruchika'.
This is absolutely shocking & DISGUSTING!

Here I would like to say that Ruchika Girhotra's family's travail has indeed created  a need for self introspection by the entire Policing System as well as has also created a fresh impetus for the'Government of India' to initiate on an urgent basis 'People friendly Police Reforms'.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
PAN:ASZPS3289C.
Cell:+91 9871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:27.08.2010
Time:12.45pm.

Thursday, August 26, 2010

My Role Model & Mother Teresa

I remember,a long time back in the year 1997,when I had gone to meet Mrs Malika Sanghvi(wife of Mr Vir Sanghvi) at "Times of India" office in Mumbai option,I carried a book on 'Mother Teresa' as a gift for Mrs Malika Sanghvi.

At that point of time Mrs Malvika Sanghvi was working as 'Resident Editor,Bombay Times,Times of India'.
I had been introduced to Mrs Malvika Sanghvi by a journalist whose name is Cyrus Merchant.At that point of time,Mrs Bacchi Karkaria was also located in the Mumbai option office of Times Of India.

As I reached the TOI office,I saw Mrs Malika Sanghvi getting into the lift of her office.
I ran upto her and said"Good Morning Madam.How are you?".Mrs Sanghvi said,"Anupam,please come with me in the lift".I complied with her wishes and got inside the lift along with Mrs Sanghvi.

Mrs Sanghvi asked me"How are you,Anupam".To which I replied absolutely fine Madam.And then I said,'Madam,there is a small gift for you".Mrs Sanghvi took it from me and removed the wrap from the gift and excitedly said,'Thank you Anupam.I wanted my son to read a book on Mother Teresa".

As we got out of the lift and entered her office cabin,Mrs Malvika Sanghvi asked me"Anupam,is Mother Teresa your Role Model?".And my reply was "Yeah Madam,Mother Teresa is my Role Model".
In fact,all the women I meet,I try to investigate as a Corporate Human Resourece person whether they have even an iota of 'Mother Teresa's qualities".
And sadly enough very few 'women have even an iota of Mother Teresa's qualities'.

This bring me to a bigger & a more significant question which I want to ask the readers of my blog.

Who is your Role Model?.Whom would you like to imitate?. Whose footsteps would you like to follow?.Whose words resonate in your mind and guide your critical decisions?.

Is it a sports person?.Is it a Hollywood or Bollywood movie star?.Is it a Politician or a political stateman?.
Who is it?.Think Hard!And tell me about your Role Model.

As far as I am concerned,my role model in today's modern times is 'a combination of Mr Rajeev Gandhi(the late Prime Minister of India),Mr Atal Bihari Vajpayee(former Prime Minister of India),Mr Barrack Obama(the President of USA),Mother Teresa,and Mr Nitish Kumar(the present Chief Minister of Bihar).

My Role Model definitely & certainly cannot be Mr Bill Clinton of Monica Lewinsky fame,Mr Lalu Prasad yadav option of Fodder Scam fame,and corrupt and greedy politicians like Mulayam Singh yadav option & Mayawati option.

For me,in essence,the epitome of my Role Model is "Mother Teresa" because I admire her"courage and her emotional maturity,emotional intelligence and her emotional strength to be selfless".
Political leaders of numerous countries,prestigious universities and organizations received uncompromising challenges from her on issues of"Human rights,chastity,respect for the unborn and the impoverished".

Mother Teresa knew that there was nothing lasting about the material possessions(food,clothing,car and houses) which the greedy & selfish people strive for and in a selfish way cling to.

In fact,Mother Teresa was quick to point out that "some of the richest people of the world are the most spiritually poor people".

Mother Teresa,more than any one else,inspired me to 'feed spiritually poor & hungry people with a sense of selfless attitude".

Mother Teresa practised what she preached.Moreover,most of the times,Mother Teresa did not even need to preach with words because her selfless practices were "loud & clear".

Friends,I am so impressed with " Mother Teresa" that I would like"My Dream girl or my would be life partner" to have the humane qualities of 'Mother Teresa".
Yeah ideed,it would be great to have 'somebody as my life partner who has the selfless attitude of Mother Teresa'.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
PAN:ASZPS3289C.
Cell:+91 9871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:26.08.2010.
Time:1.29pm(Indian Standard Time).

Monday, August 23, 2010

Recruitment & Retention Strategies

In modern times,one of the greatest problem which employer of a Business Organization face is the increasing difficulty in maintaining balance between finding skilled manpower to replace the "Older employees gradually inching towards retirement".
Now a days,Business Organization understand and accept the substantial adverse impact of "employees Turnover" on their profitability.
For a Business Organization,it is very important to keep (a)Employees turnover cost low and (b) Recruitment cost low in order to maintain profitability as well as to maintain sustained superiority over their competitors.

According to me,Business Organization can improve their ability to attract, and retain skilled manpower as well as improve productivity by following "the following Five Steps'.
These "Five Steps"are:-

(a) Provide a positive work environment.

(b) Recognize,Reward and Reinforce "right behaviour" in your employees.

(c)Involve and Engage employees through "Employees Participation" in the "Decision - Making
    Process".

(d) Develop skills and potential skills of employees by using"Class room method of training as well
     on the Job training".
(e) Evaluate & constantly measure performance of employees through Competency Mapping performance measurement framework".In fact,Business Organization should extensively make use  of "Competency Mapping as a Strategic Planning & Management System".

This is Anupam Sinha signing off.

Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human REsource Advisor & Trainer
Pan number:ASZPS3289C
Cell:9871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:23.08.2010
Time:3.15pm(Indian Standard Time).

Thursday, August 19, 2010

20th August is my Birthday.

Yeah friends, 2oth August is my birthday.My father & mother gave birth to me on 20th August.
Today,I called up Additional Commissioner of Police(Crime) as well as Director Prison(Tihar Jail) for an appointment option to discuss about high profile criminal options & fraud options lodged in Tihar jail for my book on "Crime & Criminal Options".
I hope that I am given appointment option by them on any day in the near future at 4 PM in the evening.
I have also sought appointment option with CBI director to discuss a few critical issues which has come to my attention(About those issues,I have mentioned significant details in my earlier blogs).
I started writing my book on "Crime & Criminal option" way back in 2007.At that point of time,I was in touch Mr UK Katna(Special Commissioner Intelligence,Delhi Police) for my book on"Crime & Criminal option".
Mr Katna was investigating the high profile Shivani Bhatnagar Murder case,Jessica Lal Murder case,Miss Mattoo's murder case and Nitish Katara murder case.
I was in touch with Mr Katna through email as well as through my cell phone number 9871806386.
On Jan 26,2007,I got a telephone call from NDTV on my cell phone number 9871806386 that they wanted to invite me for their program"We the People".And for this,they wanted me to come to'Lakshmi Studio,Sector 16 A,Noida".
In the begining,I refused the invitation of NDTV because I felt that I am too insignificant person to be invited by them for their program"We the people".
However,the NDTV people must have called me 100 times atleast(Please check my call details of the delhi number 9871806386) to make me accept their invitation.At last,I accepted their invitation and requested the NDTV people to send a formal email invitation on my email id anupamsinha12001@yahoo.co.in.
On 26th Jan,2007,at 6.30pm(in the evening) as I tried to open my email id,I realized that my email id anupamsinha12001@yahoo.co.in had been hacked.
If you recollect,you would remember that 26th of Jan,2007,was a friday.And therefore,26th of Jan,2007,being a'Republic Day of India was a holiday'.I could not have filed a FIR for the hacking of my email id anupamsinha12001@yahoo.co.in on 26th of Jan,2007.
As a last resort,I called up Mr UK Katna for advise.Mr Katna was considerate enough to give me the cell phone number of Mr S D Mishra(who was ACP,Cyber Crime Cell,at that point of time).
Subsequently,I spoke to Mr SD Mishra on his cell phone number 9868119898 and informed him that my email id anupamsinha12001@yahoo.co.in had been hacked at 6.30pm on 26th of Jan,2007.
Mr S D Mishra politely asked to come to his office on 29th of Jan,2007,to file an FIR for the hacking of my email id anupamsinha12001@yahoo.co.in.
On 29th of Jan,2007,at 12.30pm I filed a FIR for the hacking of my email id anupamsinha12001@yahoo.co.in on 26th of Jan,2007.
Mr SD Mishra promised to act upon my FIR.On 6th of Feb,2007,Mr SD Mishra called me on my cell phone number 9871806386 and told me that because of 'loopholes in the cyber laws,'he would not be in a position to initiate action against the hacker of my email id anupamsinha12001@yahoo.co.in.
On 14th of Feb,2007,I filed an FIR with CBI attaching the photostat copy of the FIR filed by me in the office of Cyber Crime Cell(Delhi Police) on 29th of Jan,2007.
Subsequently,I met Joint Director CBI,Mr Rajani Kant Mishra,on 22nd of Feb,2007 at CBI headquarter.
Mr Rajani Kant Mishra asked Mr BalaKrishnan to investigate the criminal angle of the hacking of my email id anupamsinha12001@yahoo.co.in.
Subsequently,I received a letter from Mr Rakesh Agarwal,Supritendent of Police(CBI/EOU-IX/New-Delhi) on 11.04.2007 that I should once again 'request the ACP,Cyber Crime cell,to investigate the matter.
Again I want back to Cyber Crime Cell,Delhi Police,but no action was taken to resolve my problem related to the hacking of my email id anupamsinha12001@yahoo.co.in.
Yeah friends,this has been my experience.
Have you experienced something similar.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
PAN number:ASZPS3289C.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:20th of August,2010.
Time:12.07pm(Afternoon).



Population Explosion & Inflation

Today,as usual,when I spoke to my Dad & Mom over the Cell phone at Patna(Bihar),my Dad & Mom advised me to take proper care of my health. They said,"Anupam,please,protect yourself against Dengue mosquitoes".
Having understood the concern of my retired Dad & Mom,I assured them that I am taking proper proactive hygienic sanitation precautions at my rental accomodation in GK-I,New-Delhi.

After talking to my Dad & Mom,as I came out for going to my workplace,I realized that it was raining heavily and the entire road outside my rental abode was deluged with knee deep water.
And my instant reaction was,"Oh! my God how will I go".
This Pathetic & appalling infrastructure condition made me think about 'the poor state of MCD'.
But then what can MCD do!.
The basic reason for these infrastructural problem is "Population Explosion".
The other day,I was informed by somebody that the total population of India in 2010 is 1,198,003,000.Out of which 27% of the population reside in urban areas.
There are about 4000 cities & towns in India.And about 300 cities have a population of over 1,00,000.
Mumbai option ranks as third most populated city after Tokyo and Mexico.Kolkata is ranked 9th and New-Delhi is ranked 14th in terms of being the most populated city.
The population of India in 1962 was 454,584,900.And in 2010 the population of India is 1,198,003,000.
The rate at which the population of India is increasing,the total population of India would overtake the total population of China by 2030.
Isn't it shocking!
Of course,it is!And government of India should initiate measures to considerably bring down the rate of growth in population.
And if the government of India manages to tackle the 'problem of population explosion then the problems related to Inflation & Unemployment would be taken care of automatically.
So the moral of the story is, please take care of population explosion.If you are able to tackle this menace,the problem of 'Inflation,shortage of food grains,and the issue of Unemployment would get addressed automatically".
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer
PAN number:ASZPS3289C.
Cell:+91 9871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India
Date:19.08.2010

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Thursday, August 12, 2010

Lage Raho Suresh Kalmadi

Yesterday,I was watching Rajya Sabha debate on'Bhopal Gas Trgedy' on television and I was fairly shocked by the way "the elders conducted themselves in the upper house of the Parliament".
It is just "Shameful".
The only saving grace was 'Mr Arun Jaitley' of BJP and our own honest & eloquent
(Harvard graduate) Union Home Minister,Mr Chidambaram.
The antics of Mr Rajeev Pratap Rudy in Rajya Sabha is shameful.Anyway,in terms of conduct,not much is expected of Mr Rajeev Pratap Rudy.
How is your mother,Mr Rajeev Pratap Rudy.Please take a few tips on etiquette from Mr Arvind Singhji.
Mr Suresh Kalmadi,you are an incorrigible liar.The other day,I was sitting in the evening with a NRI friend of mine and watching the news on 'Times Now'.
And my NRI friend said,"Oh fuck! Suresh Kalmadi is involved in an act of corruption which involves Rs 24.6 Crores".
And I said,"All this corruption has been done in the name of Emergency Procurement".
You know Mr Suresh Kalmadi,on thursday(12.08.2010) I was feeling very miserable because I had to borrow a small amount of money from my "retired father & mother".And my father & mother were gracious enough to lend the money to me.But still,I am feeling miserable & guilty because I should not borrow money from my "retired father & mother".And I intend to return 'every penny which I have borrowed from my retired father and mother".
And Mr Suresh Kalmadi option, the feeling of guilt shall stay with me till I return the money back to my father and mother.
What about you Mr Suresh Kalmadi!Aren't you feeling guilty for stealing Rs 24.6 Crores of public(Tax Payers) money.Mr Suresh Kalmadi option,Anupam Sinha is also a tax payer.Please check the Income Tax record.My PAN number is ASZPS3289C.I have even filed advance income tax return for the assessment year
2010 - 2011.
So Mr Suresh Kalmadi option in logical terms,you have stolen my money as well.
May I ask you Mr Suresh Kalmadi option,"What will you do with the stolen money of Rs 24.6 Crores".Are you planning to use this stolen money of Rs 24.6 Crores for the comfort of your children.May be,Mr Suresh Kalmadi option,you can go to Switzerland to put this money in
"Swiss Account".
Mr Suresh Kalmadi option,you are "an incorrigible Liar".I must admit that Mr Suresh Kalmadi option,you have perfected the 'art of being an impeccable Liar".
And by the way,you visited 40 countries with tax payers money.May I ask you Mr Suresh Kalmadi option 'How many countries have you visited with your own money".Think about it and tell me."Lage Raho Suresh Kalmadi Chori karne mein".All the best.
Just as you 'threatened to file defamation suit against Times Now,please file defamation suit against me as well".I will be very happy because it will give me an opportunity to ensure that a "a thief,a liar and a corrupt person like you Mr Suresh Kalmadi option is sent to Tihar Jail".
The people of Pune should isolate "a chor called Suresh Kalmadi option".
And Yes Mr Prime Minister,please examine & analyze the "effective contribution of Corruption,NPAs,Bad debts and Loans raised from banks by Industrialists against fabricated Balance sheets(B\S) to inflation".(Mr Rama Linga Raju is an example for raising money against false balane sheet).
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Yours Sincerely,
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
PAN number:ASZPS3289C.
Cell:9871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:13.08.2010.
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Thursday, August 5, 2010

Satyug,Kalyug,Crime & Pune Connection

Mr Lal Krishna Advani life is strange.Touch your heart Mr Advani and openly tell the
'law-abiding citizens of India the criminal acts of BJP since 1997.Yeah Mr Advani,you went on record in one of the television channels that you have seen'Hum Aapke Hain Kaun' cinema option 100 times.So we all realistic minded law-abiding citizens of India know your fondness for Bollywood cinema option.(Mr Advani at the fag-end of my article I will talk about the concept of"Desh Droh and Desh Drohi').
But Mr Advani "Life is not Cinema'.Still if you feel so Mr Advani "All the best to you".
If you recollect Mr Advani,Atalji had advised Mr Narendra Modi option after 'the Godhra Carnage'to stop the madness.But you decided to support Mr Narendra Modi option.
And today,Mr Advani Narendra Modi option has become 'the epitome of ultimate crime'and is running a extortionist government in Gujarat'.
The present Gujarat episode can be 'super hit subject for bollywood cinema Mr Advani'.
Mr Advani,please tell all law-abiding citizens of India the 'truth about the Malegaon blast and the various bomb blast which has taken place in India since 1998'.
Also Mr Advani'tell us about the mysterious circumstances in which Mr Randhir Verma,the Senior Supritendent of Police of Dhanbad,died.And the impelling reason for giving 'Lok Sabha ticket to the widow of Late Mr Randhir Verma'.
Mr Advani,let me inform you that Mr Randhir Verma's father 'Mr DP Verma was a very good friend of my father'Mr Shambhu Nath Sinha'.
Mr Advani,let me inform you that 'Mr DP Verma and his family is dead.Randhir Verma's younger brother, Mr Rajiv Verma(a brilliant student) died under mysterious circumstances.And Mr Advani,Mr Randhir Verma's widow has sold the 'the house of DP Verma located in Ashok Nagar,Ranchi,Jharkhand,and she has bought a huge bungalow in New-Delhi'.
So Mr Advani this is how 'the family of Late Randhir Verma was finished by his widow.The same widow whom BJP gave ticket to fight Lok Sabha election from Dhanbad'.
So that is story of 'Mr Randhir Verma's father and his family'.
Do you feel sad.Any remorse or guilt Mr Advani.
Mr Advani do you think 'would Lord Rama of Satyug ever forgive you for the Rath yatras taken out by you for the sake of narrow political gains'.
Think about it Mr Advani.Anyway,Mr Advani tell us about the ABVP involvement in the bomb blasts in various parts of india in the name of'Muslim terrorism option'.
And also tell us about the entire truth about'the Pramod Mahajan and Praveen Mahajan episode option because Gopi Nath Munde option is very close to you'.And also tell us about 'Shiv Sena's connection with Dawood Ibrahim Kaskar option'.
Mr Advani,I(Anupam Sinha) have suffered a great deal of physical,mental,and
emotional trauma since 1998.And Mr Advani'only time will tell who is desh drohi'.
But Mr Advani 'one day truth shall prevail because Lord Rama of Satyug is Watching the antics of Crooks & Desh Drohi'.
Mr Advani,let me warn 'Human Gods'that the power of money does not have the 'power to snub the power of truth'.
So watch out Mr Advani"Lord Rama of Satyug is watching you".
Mr Advani,please anwer my questions eith 'honesty & Courage'.
Mr Nitin Gadkari,I have no ill-feelings against Marathis.And so far as Mr Suresh Kalmadi option is concerned the law will take its on course because displaying of forged email is a sufficient evidence of'wrong doing & guilt'.
Once again Mr Nitin Gadkari as a Bihari,I have regards for honest & patriotic Marathis.But Mr Nitin Gadkari'the likes of Pramod Mahajan option,Suresh Kalmadi option and Thackerays and dawood Ibrahim Kaskar options' should be condemned strongly.
Mr Advani,Anupam Sinha is not scared of death as 'all of us have to die one day.Even the power of will not work'.
Yeah Mr Advani with due regards to you, let me tell you only time will prove'who is a Desh Drohi'.And Mr Advani only time will prove 'my honesty & integrity".Mr Advani"Lord Rama of Satyug is watching you."PLEASE TELL US THE TRUTH".
My regards to you Mr Advani.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
PAN number:ASZPS3289C.
Cell:+919871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:6.08.2010.
Time:12.30pm(Indian Standard Time).

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Sex,Crime,Corruption & London Dreams

Mr Barrack Obama,the quality & integrity of global politicians has become a question mark.Do you agree with me,Mr Obama.
The economic mess in USA is the byproduct of Jr George Bush's policies.And another democracy which has become the victim of politicians insatiable greed,lust & corruption is'Mother India'.
I am sure Mr Barrack Obama,you must be keeping yourself abreast with what is happening in Jammu & Kashmir(Jammu & Kashmir is an integral part of India),Gujarat and ofcourse 'the ongoing revelations of corruption in Jammu & Kashmir.Oh sorry!,Commonwealth games'.
Mr Obama,let me administer a quiz to you.
Please tick the most appropriate answer,Mr Obama.
1) The biggest act of Sin in the last 10 years.
(a) Mr Bill Clinton poking a cigar in the private parts of the intern Monica Lewinsky in White
House.
(b) Mr Pramod Mahajan episode involving his younger brother Praveen Mahajan
(There are strong rumours of extra-marital affair).
(c) Mr Rahul Mahajan option's acts of crime & Sins(Includes Payal Rohatgi's episode).
(d) A sexual Shag to satisfy the sexual urge by law-abiding common men & women.
(e) Male & female prostitution
(f) Consumption of liqour & cigarettes by women.
Mr Obama,please answer the question correctly.
Mr Barrack Obama,I consider a sexual shag by law-abiding global men and women as completely
harmless in comparison to the insatiable greed,lust and corruption of politicians.
Let us some day have a global public debate on "Sex and Corruption".
In India,these days the swindling of crores of public money by 'Mr Suresh Kalmadi and his commonwealth team' is tumbling out everyday.Mr Suresh Kalmadi options name has not only been insinuated for the theft & robbery of tax payers' money but also for indulging in forgery of contract documents related to 'Commonwealth games".
And Mr Obama,the government of India has asked Mr Suresh Kalmadi option(who is himself invoved in the act of forgery & swindling of public money) to investigate "the acts of swindle,theft,and robbery of public money".
You see Mr Obama,"A Chor has been asked to investigate the swindle,theft and robbery of public money".
Mr Obama,I am sure Mr Suresh Kalmadi option would say"Mera Desh mahaan".
Mr Obama,in ancient times India's wealth was plundered by Muhammed Ghazani & Muhammed
Ghori.
And in modern times,India's wealth & public money is being plundered by the likes of Mr Suresh
Kalmadi option.
Mr Obama,I really admire the confidence with which Mr Suresh Kalmadi option defends his act
of'corruption & forgery'.
Mr Obama as a Bihari I would really feel sad if somebody from the land of Shivaji is called"a swindler & a fraud".
Mr Suresh Kalmadi,the shag of corruption will come out very soon.And please Mr Suresh Kalmadi option,you are good at kissing.
I saw the 'Kiss & eye contact on television.Did you enjoy your visit to London'.
Oh! Sorry Mr Suresh Kalmadi option,I will not talk about your "London Dream".
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer
PAN number:ASZPS3289C.
Cell:+919871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:4.08.2010
Time:12.58pm(Indian Standard Time).

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Take a Break - Its Kit Kat time

Last few days have been terrible as on all the Television news channels only news hogging limelight have been that of Mr Rahul Mahajan,S\O Mr Pramod Mahajan and nephew of Mr Praveen Mahajan and Mr Gopi Nath Munde.
Other news items hogging limelight have been that of Charles Shobhraj who has been given life imprisonment by the court of Nepal for the murder of an American in 1975.
And yes the other news on Television channel has been related to the issue of 'infrastructure & money laundering mess related to Commonwealth games'.
Today BJP probably had a trade off with the government that they are willing to discuss the issue of price rise without voting in the temple of parliament,if the government slowed down investigation of Amit Shah option.
This truce formula probably was reached in the office of Mr Pranab Mukherjee option.Even the investigation of the IPL fraud was stalled at the behest of Mr Pranan Mukherjee option.
Mr Pranab Mukherjee option the Union Ministry for Finance is in total mess.
Anyway,let us see how long Sonia aunty remains blinded to the utter disarray of the Finance Ministry.
Yeah coming to Mr Rahul Mahajan option,Anupam Sinha would only say that'just like the
ill-reputed Mr Pramod Mahajan option,his son Mr Rahul Mahajan option is just carrying on with the ill-repute tradition of his family.
Mr Rahul Mahajan has earlier been involved in a drug case in which the oriya private secretary of late Pramod Mahajan option expired.No police case was registeres against Mr Pramod Mahajan option.Instead Dr Anupam Sabharwal of Apollo hospital was interrogated by Delhi Police.
Thereafter,Mr Rahul Mahajan option has been involved in domestic violence option which idiotic media gave undue importance and coverage.First it was Shweta Singh and now it is Dimpi Ganguly.
My comments about Mr Rahul Mahajan option would be that'he is a spoilt son of the equally spoilt Mr Pramod Mahajan option'.
I am sure Mr Atal Bihari Vajpayee and Mr Nitin Gadkari of BJP would agree with me.
Today,the names 'Rahul,Priyanka and Sonia'have become very common.There is 'Sonia Singh in NDTV'.Another Sonia in Aaj Tak.
And God knows 'how many Sonias,Rahuls,and Priyankas on the streets of India'
.
WHY!
And the answer I got was that in some ways these people want to identify themseves with the powerful"Mrs Sonia Gandhi,Mr Rahul Gandhi,and Mrs Priyanka vadhera'.
My friends compare Mr Rahul Mahajan option with Mr Rahul Gandhi.And you will get to know their respective 'true worth in terms of conduct,inegrity,and sensibility
.'
Mr Nitin Gadkari this Pramod Mahajan clan option has become a liability for BJP.I am sure Atalji will agree with me.
Sonia aunty is fortunate to have a worthy son like"Rahul Gandhi".I am sure Mr Nitin Gadkari will agree with me on this.
Mr Nitin Gadkari,please control the malaria & Swine flu called Mr Rahul Mahajan option.
And Mr Union Finance Minister'Why don't you investigate Bollywood option for financial irregularities'.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer
PAN Number:ASZPS3289C.
Cell:+919871806386
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:2.08.2010
Time:12.58pm(Indian Standard Time).

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Inflation(Price Rise),Sex and Power

For BJP to raise the issue of 'price rise' along with their strange & incompatible bed-fellows is essentially a tactics to divert attention of common people from the CBI investigation & exposure of the extortionist and mafia way of functioning of the Gujarat govt under Narender Modi option.
For me , the more important concerns are Hindu terrorism rearing its head under BJP,Communist parties nexus with Naxalite options and corrupt antecedents of Lalu Prasad Yadav's option of chara ghotala case,Ram vilas Paswan(Who married twice),Mayawati's & Mulayam Singh yadav's disproportionate asset cases.
For me,the greater concern is to bring back the era of Dr Rajender Prasad,Lal Bahadur Shastri and Jai Prakash Narain,who preached & practised 'the concept of clean politics'.
Probably closest to these Political stalwarts was Late Mr Rajeev Gandhi and in today's modern time's option Dr Manmohan Singh & Mr Chidambaram.
BJP as a Political party is badly missing its stalwart,Mr Atal Bihari Vajpayee.Mr Nitin Gadkari is a good human-being.But Nitin Gadkari needs time to acquire the stature of Atalji.
For me,the bigger concern is to impress Supreme Court of India & Election Commission to make stringent policies to stop tainted politician options with criminal cases & corruption cases against them from entering the'temple of the Indian Parliament and State legislatures'.
For me,the greater concern is that extortionist & mafias like Gujarat govt should be punished without dealy so that the'institution of democracy'is not muffled & muzzled by politician options of ill-repute like 'Narendra Modi & Amit Shah options'.
Coming to another controversial issue relating to intricate relationship between "Sex and Power,"I shudder at the thought of the sexual perversions of Bill Clinton,Narain Dutt Tewari,Swami Nityanand etc.
The list os Sexual scandal options is just endless.
A research of powerful people involved in'Sexual Scandal options'would shock law-abiding citizen like Anupam Sinha.
A jog down the memory lane would make you remember that on June 29.06.1989,the Washington Times' Paul Rodriguez and George Archibled had reported on a'Wahington DC prostitution ring that had intimate connection with the White House'.
Another Sex scandal relates 'Larry Craig's pervert sex scandal'.Republican Mark Foley's involvement was equally disgusting.
Connection between 'Male prostitution and the White House'emerged again in early 2005.
In the mid 1990's,convicted child rapist Mr Marc Dutroux had built a'secret prison cell in his Charleroi basement where he keptabducted young women hostage at the behest of what he called "a big crime ring'.

In recent times,Bill Clinton's sexual perversion with the intern option Monica Lewinsky in White House,Narain Dutt Tewari's sexual perversion in Andhra Pradesh Raj Bhavan,high profile Swami Nityanand's sexual perversion etc are shocking revelation of intricate relationship between 'Power & Sex".
IPL brand of cricket is another example of nexus between'Power & Sex'.
Even unglamorous sports like 'women hockey' has become victim of sex scandal.
Women's Cricket has so far not become victim of sex scandal.
Mr Vijay Mallaya's passion are well known.Mr Mallya,please send one of those 'Lusty Calenders of 2010 to Anupam Sinha'.Truly,Mr Mallya,you were born with the'Golden Spoon'.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
Cell:+919871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:29.07.2010.
Time:4.10pm(Indian Standard Time)

Saturday, July 24, 2010

The Two ugly faces of Terrorism option.

Yeah Mr Barrack Obama,the cancerous Pakistan option is getting on to the nerves of law-abiding citizens.
I am sure Mr Obama,my Dad(Mr Shambhu Nath Sinha) and my younger brother(Mr Raman Kumar Sinha) would agree with me that the cancerous Pakistan option has become a serious threat to recession & inflation ridden global economy with employment rate being staggering 10% in USA(22 thousand unemployed in USA).
In today's recession hit global environment,terrorism option has to be dealt with stringent & concrete actions on war footing.

Mr Barrack Obama,9\11 in USA and 26\11 in India are ample indication that terrorist options operating from the Cancerous Pakistan option want to destabilise 'the two largest democracies of the world'.
Mr Obama,India and USA must jointly undertake military action to flush out terrorist options hiding in the region between the cancerous Pakistan option and Afghanistan.
In recent modern times option,the two ugly faces of terrorism have been"Muslim terrorism and Hindu terrorism".
The muslism terrorism has essentially been essentially operating from the cancerous Pakistan.The victims of 9\11 in USA and 26\11 in India have faced the
heart-breaking consequences of 'muslim terrorism'.
And for the global spread of 'Muslim terrorism,'the cancerous Pakistan has been solely responsible.
In fact,Mr Barrack Obama,the entire 'muslim community of the world'have in recent times been looked at with suspicion because of the cancerous Pakistan option.
According to me,the law abiding muslim community should distance themselves from the Pakistani national options.And Mr Barrack Obama,the cancerous Pakistan option should be declared as"Terrorist State".
Having said that,I have to admit that in recent modern times,the other ugly face of emerging face of terrorism has been 'Hindu Terrorism' to counter the cruelties of 'muslim terrorism' in India.
The emerging nascent 'Hindu terrorism' is essentially confined to Mother India.
An example of 'Hindu terrorism' is "Malegaon blast".
Yeah Mr Rajiv Pratap Rudy,the terrorist options like Afzal Guru(responsible for attack on Indian Parliament) and Kasav responsible for 26\11 in Mumbai option should be hanged without delay.Mr Rudy,Anupam sinha agrees with you.
But Mr Rajeev Pratap Rudy,please tell me if Lt Col Prasad Purohit,Ajay Rahirkar,Rakesh Dhawade and Miss Sadhvi Singh being tried in the court(Bombay High Court) of the Judge Mr YD Shinde under the Maharashtra control of organised crime Act(MCOCA) are found guilty then'what should be the quantum of punishment for them'.
Mr Rajiv Pratap Rudy,Anupam Sinha is a Hindu.
And as a hindu,I feel that in a 'Pluralistic Society,' like India,people of all religion should be allowed to co-exist in a congenial environment.
I am sure"Lord Rama" would agree with Anupam Sinha,Mr Rajeev Pratap Rudy.
Some day,I will talk about you,Mr Rajeev Pratap Rudy.Did you visit Chandigarh in recent times.
Mr Rajeev Pratap Rudy,Anupam Sinha is not scared of Death.
Mr Nitin Gadkari,I trust you because you are a good human-being.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer
Cell:+919871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:24.07.2010

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Sex Scandal in Hockey

It is tragic to here that even unglamorous sports like hockey has become victim of sex scandal.Earlier only glamorous sports like 'Cricket' attracted 'sex scandals' because of the obvious defamed brand of T20 Cricket.
Good God,"This is really worst phase of Kalyug".The general quality of human-being has gone down.
Even Indian Political System has declined.Have we hit the bottom less pit in terms of 'Human Values'.
God,please protect law-abiding citizens from crooks.
Some day,I will talk about you,Mr Rajiv Pratap Rudy.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer
Cell:+919871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Time:4.52pm(Indian Standard Time).

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Love,Deceit,and Hatred

As I look back to the days of 1994 when I joined Dabur at New-Delhi as Management Trainee(Personnel) to the days When I joined Larsen & Toubro in Mumbai option in June 1997 as Deputy Manager(HR) and compare it to my present status as Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer(In between I worked as Vice-President(HR) for a Corporate House) plus Visiting Faculty of Human Resource Management at various Management Institutes in
New-Delhi & ncr,I feel that I have consistently evolved in terms of my professional competence.On a personal level,I have also evolved into a better human-being despite the onslaught of deceit and hatredness.
Though I did my Postgraduation in Personnel Manangement(1992 - 1994 batch) from XISS,Ranchi,I received in 2006 recommendation letters from Indian Institute of Management(Lucknow) and XLRI(Jamshedpur) for my work in the area of Human Resource Audit for Recruitment,Performance Management System,Performance Appraisal & Reward System,and Training and Development.
In fact,my father felt pleasantly surprised by the respect accorded to me at XLRI(Jamshedpur).And it gave me immense emotional & professional satisfaction.
My first experience of'Deceit and professional hatredness'dates back to my working days in Mumbai option.Yeah,initially,attempts were made to run down my personal integrity as well as professional competence.When these powerful bastards did not succeed in that they tried to 'murder me".As a result, between 1996 to 2006,four attemts were made on my life.Three attempts were made in Mumbai option and one attempt on my life was made in New-Delhi in 2003 just before 'Holi Festival'.
I have identified the powerful bastards responsible for the 'attempts on my life'.And at appropriate time,I will respond because I do not believe in the philosophy of 'forgive and forget'.I will be ruthless but legal in my revenge.
And yeah,those bastards responsible for messing with my life between'the year 1998 to 2010'will also be not spared by me.
Be prepared,Anupam Sinha will take legal revenge.And if by any chance anyone of these powerful bastards dive into their grave,I promise to dig them out of thir grave to 'settle the scores'.That is a promise,I swear,I will honour at all cost.
Remember,you powerful bastards,if your lives are valuable than so is my life.If your personal dreams and professional dreams are valuable than so is my personal dreams and professional dreams.
So friends,in Mumbai option I had my first tryst with ruthless professional hatredness.
This onslaught of 'ruthless Professional hatredness made me resolve to achieve greater professional competence'.The fact that I have a number of 'publications to my credit is an obvious indication of my professional competence'.
Like professional hatredness,I have also experienced professional deceit which almost ruined my personal life.
Friends,all of us want to experience the 'God's gift of love'.I,Anupam Sinha,am no exception.
My search for a "Dream Girl" continues.Some day, by the grace of God,I will find my 'true divine life partner option,'who would become the 'Anchor of my true divine love story option'.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
Cell:+91 9871806386
Date:16.07.2010
Time:12.39pm.

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

The dangerous lust for Power - Omnipotent.

All human being consider themselves to be wise & intelligent.And also all human being want to be rich & powerful.I have yet to come across a person who condiders'himself or herself to be a duffer'.
This is human psychology.
Yeah! I do consider myself to be slightly less intelligent than duffers.God,please give more "Brain" in my next birth as human-being.Right God!
Coming back to the main issue of 'Power Game',I would like to state that 'human psychology'induces all people,irrespective of their educational credentials,to aspire to be "Rich & Powerful".
Am I right Mr Lalit Modi option.Mr Lalit Modi option 'don't you want to be Rich & Powerful.Yeah,Mr Lalit Modi option even'a beggar on the road wants to be 'Rich & Powerful".
The attributes of "Rich & Powerful" makes an individual feel endowed with 'God like Power' with which the individual can 'manipulate or demolish the life and destiny of harmless law-abiding citizens of India as well as global citizens'.
How fallacious this logic is.Sometimes I laugh at people like Lalit Modi option or Vijay Mallaya.
Mr Vijay Mallaya, buying IPL team or serenading with skimpily clad models on sea beaches or business collaborations and takeovers and Hawala transactions will not make you' powerful God'.History proves this fact!
People of your tribe like Rajan Pillai,Harshad Mehta and in recent times Ramalinga Raju,Ketan Mehta etc suffered tragic end to their lives.Some of them are still alive but they are leading a life even worse than that of a 'stray dog'.
I pray to God that 'self crowned Gods like Vijay Mallya or Lalit Modi option' should have a gracious exit from "Mother Earth".
Just like in the game of IPL Cricket,'the Law of Average'works in human life as well.So watch out'Human Gods',the God up their in the sky is not only watching your antics but also 'keeping a tab over your Godly antics'.
Therefore,'All the Best" to all "the Human Gods" who like to manipulate.play around and try to demolish the life of law-abiding citizens like Anupam Sinha.
In recent time,people like Charles Shobhraj option,Lalit Modi option,Ketan Mehta option,Ramalinga Raju option,Rathore option,Ravi Kant Sharma of Shivani Bhatnagar murder option,Swine rapist Shiny Ahuja option,in their greed for power & lust for money and sex indulged in 'Crime option'and subsequently 'the Law of Average worked against as they got caught & punished for their Crime'.
Yesterday and today,quite a few TV news channels talked about"Charles Shobhraj option's criminal escapades because a judicial verdict relating to a murder of an American national in Kathmandu,Nepal,in 1975 got posponed.
Here,I would like to throw open a debate in public domain "Is Charles Shobhraj a bigger Criminal option with a more dangerous & destructive mindsets than Lalit Modi option'.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off with a warning to"Human Gods,"please do not try to encroach the "territory of God Rama".Otherwise,watchout for "The Law of Average".God is watching your 'Deceit & incredible Lust for POWER!".
And also be careful 'Share Market Gurus & Pandits of Cinema'.
All of us came to"Mother Earth" with empty hands and will go back with empty hand.Mr Vijay Mallay and Mr Lalit Modi option,the God up their would decide the date & time of our departure from 'Mother Earth'.
So the Moral of the story is"Please do not try to be God.Just try to play your role of a good human being as desired by God!".Same holds true for all those who like"Madhushala".
"All the Best".
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer
Cell:+919871806386
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:15.07.2010.
Time:12 noon(Indian Standard Time).

Monday, July 12, 2010

Zindabad Zindagi

Yesterday in the evening as I was returning home from office,I got stuck in a terrible traffic jam compounded by sudden rain.As the traffic jam became too terrible & complicated,I began too ponder over the lack of traffic sense & driving sense of men and women on the road.
And in a low voice I told myself"Good God!give them the traffic sense to be a little more patient & disciplined on road".
I hope,sooner or later,these spoilt drivers on the wheel understand the wisdom of being a little more disciplined on road.
A disciplined traffic sense would considerably reduce traffic jam as well as 'Accidents on the road'.
Moreover,I feel Joint Commissioner of Police(Traffic) together with Commissioner of Police,Delhi Police, should develop a comprehensive strategy to install CCTV cameras at important traffic light intersections to punish unruly men & women on the wheel.Delhi Police should pull up their socks before the'Commonwealth Games'.
As I was sitting at the backseat of the car,I looked through the raised window glasses of my car,I saw people of all shapes & sizes returning eagerly to be with their near & dear ones waiting impatiently for them at their respective abode.Despite getting drenched in rain,there was a sense of satisfaction & happiness in their 'body language'.My good wishes to them.

And then my thoughts came back to me.And I asked myself!
"Whom am I returning back to!".The answer was empty house.
"Who is waiting for me at home!".The answer was nobody because I am a bachelor as I am unmarried.
To divert from this disturbing thought,I took out a pen & a paper to scribble my poetic thoughts.
And I wrote:-
Sometimes I feel life is a mystery,
Sometimes I feel life is a history,
Sometimes I feel life is a love story,
Somtimes I feel life is a sob story,
Sometimes I feel life is a story of divine love,
Sometimes I feel life is a story of selfish flesh love,
Sometimes I feel life is full of happiness,
Sometimes I feel life is full of sadness.
But then my feelings & thoughts on life are my own feelings,
And these turbulent feelings & thoughts are dear to me,
And despite my Pain & Agony,
The hope of a more bright tomorrow infuses in me,
The hope of finding my"Dream Girl of my dream".
And this hope makes me exult and say"Zindagi Zindabad".
This is Anupam Sinha Signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
Cell:+919871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:13.07.2010
Time:12.20pm(Indian Standard Time).



Rich Beggars and Poor Beggars.

Today in the morning I was watching ET news channel and one of the brute of an idiot anchor used the term"begggar" to say that'beggars cannot afford to enter share market'.
Absolutely right Mr Anchor.

According to me only 'rich beggars can afford to enter share market' because these rich beggars like Ketan Mehta or late Harshad Mehta are well versed in the 'art of cheating and fraud'.Right Mr Ashu Malhotra(ET news channel).
According to me "begging"is an evil.And sooner the government of India initiates measures to deal with the evil of begging,the better it would be.

The next question which comes to my mind after determining the fact that'begging is evil in nature' is that'who is a greater evil for the society - Rich beggars or Poor beggars.
Examples of rich beggars could be frauds like Ketan Mehta,Harshad Mehta,Lalit Modi option of IPL fraud fame,Rama Linga Raju of Satyam fraud fame and many more of his tribe.These rich beggars fraudulently beg because they want to enjoy 'the luxuries of Honda Accord and Five Star hotel and a vacation to Switzerland.I am sure Harshad Mehta or Ketan Mehta must have enjoyed these luxuries.
And one more thing,Rich beggars generally go to jail for big time frauds.Examples could be Harshad Mehta or Ketan Mehta.
On the other hand,Poor beggars sometime go to jail because of petty crime.
And examples Poor beggars could be road side beggars begging for their 'Rotis'.
I leave it to the imagination of the 'global law abiding citizen to decide whether rich beggars or poor beggars are greater evil for an healthy & vibrant society.
And yes Mr Ashu Malhotra,'hedging' is a form of share market fraud.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer
Cell:+91 9871806386
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:22.07.2010
Time:2.10pm

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Corporate Jungle,Share Market and Sex Market

Today,I would like to delve in intricate detail the under belly of Corporate Jungle,Share Market,and Sex Market.Another point,I would like to make here is that once upon a time "India used to be a agriculture driven economy.However,since 1998 India became Cinema driven economy because of BJP's and Mr Lal Krishna Advani option's fondness for hindi cinema.That is why you find the likes of Tulsi Irani,oh! sorry,Smriti Irani in BJP.Good times for Tulsi Irani!Make hay Tulsi while the sun of ekta kapoor shines in your backyard!".
Let us talk about 'Share market and Sex market'.Once somebody asked me
"Mr Sinha,do you see any similarity between share market and sex market'.And my reply was that the share market experts and Economic Times news channel and CNBC TV 18 can more appropriately answer the similarity between"Share Market and Sex Market".
Ofcourse,I told this friend of mine that I can delve in detail about the prospect of large caps,mid caps and small caps.I also told him that I can predict with certain level of confidence the future highs & lows of 'sensex and nifty'.But please don't ask me the similarity between"Share Market and Sex Market" because the expert of 'Dalal Street'know it better.Right ET news cannel and CNBC TV 18.
Yeah,let us talk about our own "Corporate Jungle".Some of the big frauds and Sharks of Corporate Jungle in recent times have been 'Rama Linga Raju of Satyam,Mr Lalit Modi option of IPL fraud fame,the darker side of Anil Nanda option indulging in gay sex option with his driver etc'.
How can I forget my experience in this Corporate Jungle!
After completing my 'Postgraduation in Personnel Management(1992-1994 batch)
from 'XISS,Ranchi",I joined Dabur in 1994 as'Management Trainee{Personnel).In 1995,I became 'Assistant Manager(HR) at Dabur'.
In 1996,I went to Mumbai option and I joined'Neo Pharma as Deputy Manager(HR).Mr Priya Darshan Deshmukh of 'Decon Management Services'had placed me there.Here,I was interviewed by Mr Aziz Ismail Patel(GM-HR).Subsequently,my selection was approved by the Chairman,Mr Rajesh Gulecha.
Here,Mr Aziz Ismail Patel tried to implicate me for his wrong doing.And when I expressed my displeasure,Mr Aziz Ismail Patel tried to get me killed.Mr Patel,I have legal evidences with me.
This was my first experience of how insidious Corporate Jungle can be.Here,I experienced how 'Mr Aziz Ismail Patel tried to implicate innocent people into false cases through the connivance of lawyers and Mumbai Police option".
Yes,Mr Aziz Ismail Patel,you will have to anwer plenty of my questions.And I promise,I will dig your dead body out of grave because you played a pivotal role for making 'first attempt on my life in Mumbai option.
Thereafter,I joined "Modern Group Textile" in Mumbai option.I had a senior colleague called'Mr Deepak Patankar and Mr Ganpathy'.Mr Deepak Patankar,you were unfair with me because you always obstructed my 'rightful professional rights & claim at Modern Group Textile'.Right,Mr Deepak Patankar.Mr Deepak Patankar,you may be having your version of the fall out.But,I have collected enough of legal evidence against you.The fact that you obtructed the withdrawal of my'Provident fund money' is a huge legal evidence along with a few other legal evidences whic are enough to pin you down in the "Court of law for professional harassment".
Mr Deepak Patankar,you have just done"Masters in Social Work".
And please check out my qualification on www.linkedin.com
For your information Mr Deepak Patankar,I am Postgraduate in Personnel Management from XISS,Ranchi(1992 - 1994 batch) as well as a Postgraduate in Poltical Science from Delhi University.And in the year 2006,I received recommendation letters from "Indian Institute of Management(Lucknow) and XLRI(Jamshedpur)for my work in the area of'Human Resource Audit for recruitment,Performance Management Systemetc.I have a numer of publications to my credit.My article on'Corporate Leadership'has been published even by Harvard Business Review.I am also visiting faculty of Human Resource Management at a number of management institutes in New-Delhi & ncr.Some of the management institutes have got my photograph on their prospectus.
Mr Deepak Patankar,do you remember my visit to "Modern Petrofils,Baroda'to conduct 'HR Audit'.And how you tried to run me down by describing my 'HR Audit assessment report as rubbish'.Right Mr Ganpathy.
Mr Deepak Patankar,for the same 'HR Audit System',I have received recommendation letters from Indian Institute of Management(Lucknow)and XLRI(Jamshedpur).
Please send me your email id.I will forward the recommendation letters for your perusal.Mr Deepak Patankar,you can get these recommendation letter verified.
Since then Mr Deepak Patankar,I have worked for some of the leading Corporate Houses like Larsen & Toubro.And presently,I am working as Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer plus visiting faculty of Human Resource Management papers in New-Delhi & ncr.
Mr Deepak Patankar truth always bites.And I will make sure that truth bites you for your wrong doings.Right,Mr Ganpathy.
So friends,since then I have faced four attempts on my life.Three attempts on my life were made in Mumbai option and one in New - Delhi..
Mr Deepak Patankar my mobile number is 09871806386.And Mr Deepak Patankar,Anupam Sinha will take revenge from you.
And please,no hanky panky.If you do that,you will get approriate retort Mr Deepak Patankar!.
So friends,this has been my experience of the"Corporate Jungle"so far.I hereby promise & resolve to face the onslaught of the Corporate Jungle upfront.
My ENEMIES watch out!And prepare for a legal battle!I promise to punish you guys with same Ruthlessness!
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Yours Sincerely,
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer
Cell:+919871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India.
Date:8.07.2010

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Is Bandh appropriate in times of 'Economic Meltdown

My first reaction was"Oh God!another bandh.And I thought,what do they get out of paralysing normal life and by bringing economic activity to a stand still.And I told myself,another day of violence,disruption and mayhem.89 flights were cancelled.God knows,how many trains were cancelled.And in Mumbai option alone,there was a whopping loss of 300 crore because of the paralysed economic activity due to BJP sponsored Bandh".
This is 'Incredible India'. Somebody told me, in "Mumbai option itself,there was a whopping financial loss of 300 crores. Keep it up BJP and enjoy your companionship with communist parties..
Do we need a violent method of Bandh in today's times of global economic meltdown. Let this be the" food for thought for the power hungry strange bed- partners". According to me,the bandh called on 5th of july 2010 was just digusting.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer
Cell:+91 9871806386
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:6.07.2010.
Time:4pm(Indian Standard Time).

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Mr Home Minister

As I read today's newspaper,I felt extremely disturbed.These naxalites options need to be dealt with firm hands and stern action.
In the last one year,these coward & irate naxalite options have killed more than 1000 innocent law-abiding citizens of India.Therefore,the government of India must act immediately and deal with naxalite options with firm military strategies.If required, government of India should use our airforce to wipe out these insane,mad and cancerous naxalite option.
In a civilized society,violence of any kind should be avoided and abjured at all cost.The essence of democracy in a civilized society is "peaceful co-existence at all cost".
Mr Prime Minister and Mr Union Minister for Home Affairs must act firmly to wipe out the cancerous menace of naxalite option.
Mind you,if the government of India doesn't act now, then the naxalite option might become as dangerous as LTTE option became in Sri Lanka.Therefore,the essence of the story is to act firmly without any delay.
For the Indian economy to constantly maintain a double digit GDP growth rate,the government of India should immediately operationalize strategies to deal and curb the menace of naxalite options,insurgencies in north-east,cross-border terrorism indulged in by Pakistan option,and domestic issues of corruption and petty crime.
Mr Union Minister for Home Affair must act with complete clarity & Firmness.The problems of cross-border terrorism option and naxalite option should be the immediate concern of the "honest and intelligent Union Home Minister,Mr Chidambaram".
Let me extend my warm regards to Dr Manmohan Singh and Mr Chidambaram.My only advice to both of them is to act firmly to deal with cross-border terrorism option and naxalite option.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer
Cell:+919871806386
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia
Date:30.06.2010

Monday, June 28, 2010

Breaking News

Since toddler days,I have been reading 'Times of India' and 'Hindustan Times'.And now,I regularly watch 'Times Now' and 'Aaj Tak'.
However,a fact which has regularly intrigued me is the business of "Breaking News" on Television news channels.And very often,I have discovered that there is a strong connect between'Breaking news,' "Sensationalism," and "TRP rating".
I distinctly remember last year on one sunday morning as I switched on the Television and surfed the various news channels,I discovered that all news channels were showing simultaneously as part of their 'Breaking news' the death and funeral proceedings of Late Mr Michael Jackson and the wedding engagement of Tennis player,Sania Mirza, to her first
boyfriend.
Thats when I realized the strong connect between 'Breaking News and TRP rating'.And TRP rating,according to me,is all about the number of eyeballs watching 'a particular news channel for a update on particular news item'.
And at that point of time,I also realized how insensitve & discomforting the business of "Breaking News"can be.
I wish there was a television news channel like "Times Now" in existence when Mr Ashok Jain married a rich woman called "Mira,the owner of Times of India".
And again I wish there was a television news channel to cover the "FERA violation committed by Mr Ashok Jain and his subsequent battle for life because of health problems in 1998.
The old retired employees of 'Times of India' very often recount the 'rag to riches story'of Mr Ashok Jain when he got married to Mrs Meera Jain.
Let me extend my warm regards to the Late Mr Ashok Jain and his wife Mrs Mira Jain.
In recent times,the "Breaking News" have been crime option committed by insidious people like"Ramalinga Raju,Mr Lalit Modi option of IPL fraud option,Kuldeepak Arora(who forced his wife into group sex),Anil Nanda option(a relative of Amitabh Bacchan option) involvement in gay sex option etc.
And mind you,all the above mentioned news item options were covered by all news channels as "Breaking News".Isn't it sickening and equally disgusting.
I would describe this kind of sensationalism as"Terribly obnoxious".
And today the "BREAKING NEWS" on all news channel has been the'sad demise of the fashion model Miss Viveka Babaji and her intriguing relationship with 'stock broker,Mr Gautam Bora option'.
Hats off to the logic and sensibility behind the concept of "BREAKING NEWS".
In my next article,I will deliberate and ponder over the strong business sense connect between "BREAKING NEWS,TRP rating,sensationalism,eyeballs and money spinning logic behind the whole idea of breaking news".
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Cell:09871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:29.06.2010
Time:12.10pm(Indian Standard Time).

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Fate & Destiny

In the last few days, lot of thoughts have troubled me purely as a human-being knowing fully well the fact option that one day I have to die and say good bye to the mother earth.Some of these troubled thoughts are related to how politicians of poor reputation are abusing power.Another troubled thought which my sixth sense tells me is that there is a link between Naxalite options and BJP.The way BJP is conducting itself in Jharkhand is sad.Why so much of lust for POWER!I would like BJP to explain this to common people like me.
Today is the death anniversary of Late Mr Rajiv Gandhi.
I would like to express my respect to the departed soul of Rajiv Gandhiji.Like Rajiv Gandhiji,I was also born on 20th August.I used to feel very proud of myself for having been born on 20th August,when Rajiv Gandhi became the Prime Minister of India.The sudden death of Rajiv Gandhi on 21st May,1990,was the saddest day of my life because as an younster I identified with the policies and the way of functioning of Rajiv Gandhi.
Now,in fact,I am scared of the fact that I was born on 20th August,knowing fully well how Late Rajiv Gandhi was cheated and deserted by his friends,relatives and enemies.
All the politicians who hounded Late Rajiv Gandhi for his pound of flesh are today sharing POWER with Mrs Sonia Gandhi(Wife of Late Rajiv Gandhi).
Isn't it Sad!.I feel sorry for the Late Rajiv Gandhi.
I wish today God gives me the magical power which could secretly allow me the Power to bring back the Late Rajiv Gandhi on this earth and show him how his wife is happily sharing power with all those politicians who once hounded for his pound of flesh.
One such person is Subodh Kant Sahay option.Vishwanath Pratap Singh was one person who had raised revolt on Bofors kickback issue against Late Mr Rajiv Gandhi.Subodh Kant Sahay option became a minister in the Government formed by Vishwanath Pratap Singh.Again Subodh Kant Sahay option became "Minister of State for Home Affairs" under Chandrashekhar Government.
Moreover,Subodh Kant Sahay option's Chadraswami connection is well known to all of us.Niraj,a relative of Subodh Kant Sahay option,was my classmate at St. Michael's (Patna) and Delhi Public School,RK Puram,New-Delhi.Niraj joined subsequently JNU and failed.Ask Niraj option if Anupam Sinha is correct.
Subodh Kant Sahay option, one fine morning decided to join Congress Party because of his close association with Mani Shanker Aiyar.
Let me challange Subodh Kant Sahay option and tell him that I(Anupam Sinha) know all the dirty work done by him.And I have been calling Central Bureau of Investigation,Govt of India, for an appointment option to discuss critical issues.
I would like to ask Mrs Sonia Gandhi - "Why was Subodh Kant Sahay sent to Lucknow after he joined Congress Party.And I would also like to ask Subodh Kant Sahay option of his connection with Adnan Khasoggi(the biggest arm smuggler and the relative of Dodi).
Once again I would like to pay my respect to the departed soul of Mr Rajiv Gandhi.At the same time,I feel scared of the fact that do I have to go through the same misery as Late Rajiv Gandhi because my mother and father gave birth to me on 20th August.
God,please protect me from devils!
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
Cell:9871806386.
Place:GK-I,New-Delhi,India,Asia.
Date:21.05.2010
Time:12(noon)

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Morality & Patriotism

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Morality & Patriotism

The 13th of April 2010 shall be long remembered for mud slinging.
The BJP as a political party has lost its sting after the exit of Atal Behari Vajpayee.Indeed Atal ji is a political statesman whom BJP is missing very badly.In the absence of Atal ji,BJP is like a rudderless ship.My congratulation to Mr Nitin Gadkari for becoming the President of BJP.At the same time,I am sure Mr Nitin Gadkari knows that he has to deal with the unruly leaders of BJP who rush to media for being in political limelight at the drop of the hat.My best wishes to Mr Nitin Gadkari because I strongly feel that Mr Nitin Gadkari is a good human being.

Another problem with BJP as a political party is that "BJP considers itself to be the sole owner of patriotism and morality".BJP thinks that those who are not associated with BJP and those who do not subscribe to their point of view are not "Patriotic and are not morally upright".This is a fallacious logic which BJP must get rid of.I was very touched by the statement of Mr Nitin Gadkari in one of his interview to a TV channel that he had seen the cinema'Anand' eleven times.I hope Mr Nitin Gadkari would take adequate steps to get rid of cancerous mindset of political leaders of BJP at the earliest.Otherwise,the political demise of BJP as a political party is not ruled out.
Mr Nitin Gadkari has rightly daignosed the problems prevailing in BJP.I hope Mr Gadkari would take the remedial steps at the earliest.

Today the breaking news on TV channel has been the IPL controversy surrounding"Mr Lalit Modi,Mr Shashi Tharoor and Miss Sunanda Pushkar,"relating to Kochi IPL team.
BJP spokesman,Mr Ravi Shankar,was quick to question about Shashi Tharoor's involvement in the Kochi IPL team's ownership controversy.
This shows how bankrupt BJP has become.
Can I ask BJP to throw some light on"Mr Pramod Mahajan & Mr Praveen Mahajan episode".

Come on,lets grow up and behave in a more mature fashion.BJP should stop crying like a spoilt child with weird notions.

I hope BJP doesn't stoop to the level of attacking Mr Shashi Tharoor's personal life by questioning his personal relationship with Miss Sunanda Pushkar.

In today's modern times,the love story of 'Mr Sarkozy & Carla Brunei" did not prevent Mr Sarkozy from being elected as the President of France.

Therefore, how can BJP question the love story of "Mr Shashi Tharoor ".Let us be gracious enough to wish lots of happiness to Mr Shashi Tharoor for his fairytale.

I hope good sense would prevail.And please,no mud slinging.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Yours Sincerely,
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
Cell:9871806386.
Place:New-Delhi.
Date:13.04.2010.
Time;6.30PM.

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Human Capital

A business organization is made up of competencies which is called'Capital'.Here the term 'Capital'refers to "structured capital,both fixed capital and working capital".The profitability and liquidity of a business organization is assessed on the strength of its ability to optimally use and achieve optimum return on its capital employed.Even market capitalization which is the hallmark of valuation of a business organization is also dependent on the degree of financial leverage which is essentially a study of capital structure.In the technology driven business environment, management of capital is challenging and critical.
I would like 'the Corporate bigwigs to comment on this observation of mine'.
This is Anupam Sinha signing off.
Yours Sincerely,
Anupam Sinha
Corporate Human Resource Advisor & Trainer.
Cell:09871806386.
Place:New-Delhi.
Date:25.03.2010
Time:6pm

Monday, March 22, 2010

DIMINISHING....LOVE....IN TODAY'S TIMES.....PLS. LEND A THOUGHT

Sorry Friends for the long slumber..............
Was tied up with certain problems and also trying to figure out .....what to write............
I am sharing my thoughts on a very common topic though quite commonly misunderstood!!!!
LOVE ......... How many of us know how to define Love actually ?

Each and every person's perspective on LOVE differs from the other person.......For some, love means parents,.....for some family, ......for some spouse and marriage
.....For some, love means physical contact....... for others, love is all about sexual n physical interaction....... For some Love is giving and taking expensive gifts.........for others maybe love is a showoff........,
For some, it is only a simple portrayal of human emotions.......be it just a rose given by the one who loves you, or..........just a simple sms or just........
a naughty wink!!!
Everyone has some or the other views but..............in today's modern times the value and place for love is gradually decreasing .........rather diminishing........


I had read somewhere , "Love is to give whatever you have......without expecting anything in return ! "
How many of us in today's setup, follow or believe in this saying??

Today, everyone wants to have........no one wants to give.......the expectations have risen sooooo much that love now is measured in material terms.........."oh, how sweet of u.........u'v brought me a solitaire ring/ necklace "

And if the same person brings a simple rose or a bunch of flowers only..............the reaction would be........."arre you've brought just flowers......no gift ???.......Pataa hai Last week Mrs. Sethi's husband gifted her a diamond necklace on their anniversary."
"Dad, you didnt buy a PSP or a Hi-Tech mobile for me.........just brought a tshirt ....thats it!!! It was my birthday today? I could have bought a tshirt anytime.........you could have bought me something nice..........What will I show to my friends.........what will they say?"




........n maybe a fight ensues.........

Irrespective of the fact, that it was their special day (anniversary/birthday) and they would have shared certain nice moments and memories together...........they ended up sharing a bitter taste of accusations and allegations!!!!!!
Nowadays, this is very common ...............which eventually ends up in distaste, which gradually ends up in drawing apart people, leading to the lowest ebb in their relationships......... Many marriages are rocked because of extramarital entanglements , eventually leading to divorces!!!
In general relationships, people drift away........avoid eachother........start to drink or fag etc. etc.

WHY DO WE FAIL TO VALUE RELATIONSHIPS........ THE EMOTIONS OF THE PERSON CLOSE TO US ........FOR WHOM WE AND OUR HAPPINESS IS IMPORTANT?

WHY CANT WE BE HAPPY WITH WHAT WE GET?

WILL EXCESSIVE MATERIALISM LEAD US TO SUSTAINING OR BREAKING UP OF RELATIONSHIPS?

WHERE HAS THE SELFLESS LOVE GONE!!!

DO WE GIVE ADEQUATE TIME AND EMOTIONS TO OUR LOVED ONES?


I remember as a kid, my Nanaji used to say, " A gift comes to you trembling"

Unable to understand the meaning , a kid I was, I asked him "how ?"........... to which he explained , "A gift portrays the emotions and love of the Giver.........and trembles whether you'll accept it nicely or not"

He used to teach us to value people, their emotions and love and not the monetary value of the person!!!!

What is permanent is the sweetness n warmth of relationships..........all other things are transitory and temporary.

Coming back to Love...........
How many of us express Love and emotions in our day-to-day daily life ?

Simply saying "I Love You! for what you are and you mean a lot to me" is so difficult nowadays to the people in your daily life..........be it your spouses, your kids, your parents, siblings etc. ...........
People nowadays are so materialistic, that they are only busy chasing Money , Power, Fame and Success. They seldom pay attention to Human Emotions and Relationships. Thus, Materialism and materialistic pleasures are the sole factors ruling!!!

Better were the times when many families used to stay together under one roof .....and share the joys and sorrows together..........Nowadays , the advancements and latest technology have brought in facilities and hi-tech living, where in each bedroom one has a separate personal theatre system but , somewhere along the line as the time goes by..........relationships and love is dying ........a slow death!!!

The parents donot know where their kids are..... in which corner of the house .....doing what........the wife doesnt know when the husband will return .........and viceversa.

Though the standard of living has improved .......... the Emotional attachments are gradually decreasing!!

However, the EXPECTATIONS are increasing........... leading to gross disappointments and dissentment.
Here, I would like to repeat the thought , I stated at the beginning, 'there is a greater emphasis on what can we GET, n not what can we GIVE to a relationship!!! '

I would like to share my thought by recalling a couplet said by Bahadur Shah Zafar, "Umrey daraaz maang kar laaye char din; do arzoo mein beet gaye, do uske pooraa hone ke intezaar mein." (Our life consists of four days, two( half of it) were wasted in expecting and the rest two in wishing to see their fulfillment)..........Where did the person get a chance to enjoy the beauty of Love......which he lost in the shadow of his unrealistic Expectations.

'LOVE IS A GREAT POWER, BUT IT TAKES POWER TO HAVE PURE LOVE..........Dont expect LOVE and ATTENTION, instead Give it!!!! '

PURE LOVE is nothing but expressing our feelings.... selflessly............ Just expressing small little gestures.......which make the other person feel special , irrespective of any special days., like birthdays or anniversaries..............Make each day , a Special Day for you and your loved ones.

Sending a nice n sweet sms, arranging a special candlelight dinner , a surprise gift , a bunch of flowers or just a rose , or even a simple phone call ...........saying "when are you coming , I'm missing you dear" or "was just thinking of you, have you had your Lunch , ...will wait for you" ...........etc can do the MAGIC ......which even the most expensive thing cannot........ 'coz emotions have no moneyvalue..........they are PRICELESS !!!!

Treat yourself as a lucky and privileged person, if God has given you , that Someone to care for...... in your life !

Accept your loved ones as they are , because, " Love is the ability to see beyond the faults of one another and to discover the beauties of his/her Heart !!! "

"Happiness and Love is not in having what you want.......... but Wanting what you Have!"

Recently I came across something interesting , "A successful Marriage depends not only on finding the right person , but, being the Right Person."

"You Love, not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing the imperfect person perfectly!!! ( by Sam Keen)

Life is all about appreciating Love .........and enjoying little little moments of happiness with your loved ones........ It can be ...... having one Naariyal paani together, or, sharing a plate of Golgappe , or , just fighting for a share in that one piece of chocolate , or, having a stroll hand-in-hand under the moonlight, or , just sitting on a seabeach , or having bhelpuri on a rainy day................... or getting half wet , and still sharing one umbrella in the rain , despite knowing, that the second one is there in the car..............

Love is to Cherish what one has!!

LOVE IS JUST ABOUT ENJOYING TOGETHERNESS!!!

IT IS THE KEY THAT CAN OPEN EVEN THE HARDEST HEART!

LOVE IS NEVER WASTED..........IT COMES BACK TO YOU A HUNDRED TIMES OVER ....... AS IT IS THE ESSENCE OF EVERYTHING BEAUTIFUL , THE FORCE BEHIND EVERYTHING WONDERFUL!!! ......." LOVE IS MAGICAL, IT IS A LANGUAGE THE DEAF CAN HEAR , A SONG THE CRIPPLE CAN DANCE TO , AND A SUNSET THE BLIND CAN SEE!! "

SO MY FRIENDS,

LET LOVE BLOSSOM IN YOUR HEART ! LET LOVE GRAB YOUR HEART AND INFUSE IT , WITH ALL THE ZEST AND JOY FOR LIFE, LOVE HAS TO GIVE TO YOU!!!!

AS , THE MORE YOU GIVE...........THE MORE YOU GET IS THE BASIC FUNDA OF LOVE !!! AND A LOVING SOUL IS ALWAYS A LOVED SOUL !!!!

AND I WOULD LIKE TO CONCLUDE WITH A POPULAR SAYING "GOD IS LOVE , AND LOVE IS GOD "

So, DISCOVER THE MAGIC OF LOVE,

..... AND SAIL IN THE OCEAN OF LOVE AND AFFECTION !

COZ LOVE CAN NEVER BE PLANNED NOR DOES IT HAPPEN FOR A REASON OR LOGIC; BUT WHEN LOVE IS REAL , IT BECOMES YOUR PLAN FOR LIFE AND REASON FOR LIVING!!!!!

(This is Anupam Sinha's friend Smita.D.Kumar , yet again with her weird set of fundas n ideas from a Mind with Chemical Locha!!! )

(PS : Do post in your comments and feedback)